Family and friends at the centre of her life
Throughout the good times and hard, Irene remained devoted to her family, staying close to her sisters and parents while teaching her children the importance of connection and community. She chatted with her sisters daily, often slipping into Slovak in quick, lively bursts that the children couldn’t understand. The family laughed at the nicknames shared between them: Aunt Bernie, the “young raven,” and Irene, lovingly called the “old crow.”
She cared deeply for her own mother too. Every week, Irene would pick Kathy up from school and take her to have lunch with her mom (Kathy’s grandmother). And when Kathy had children of her own, she found herself frequently turning to her mom as a friend and confidante, sharing coffee, errands and laughter.
Building a better future for their community
As her children grew and eventually had children of their own, Irene extended the importance of family and community to the next generation. She bought colourful cereal bowls just for them – pink, blue and green – and stocked little boxes of every cereal so each child could have their favourite. Family members smile at memories of Irene’s delight in putting out the goodies (cookies and chocolates included) for the visiting kids, even as the young parents fretted about ruining their appetite for dinner. In the car, she listened to their new favourite bands and musical interests, eventually declaring that she loved all of it.
The last five years of Irene’s life were marked by the consequences of a hemorrhagic stroke, including seizures, memory loss and cognitive decline. Yet her appreciation for the life she had built with William remained. Even as words grew scarce, Irene would look out at the familiar view of Lake Ontario from their home and remark, “It’s beautiful.”
The Irene Frances Breen Chair in Hemorrhagic Stroke reflects Irene’s conviction, taught at her kitchen table and lived in countless small acts, that hope is practical, communal and persevering. As Bob shares, it reflects Irene’s steadfast dedication to making life better for her community. “It’s another way of her helping people even after she’s not here,” he says. “And as my mom saw it, if it helps one person, then it was a great thing to do.”
“My wife was my best friend, my partner – the love of my life for almost 65 years,” adds William. “She completed me, which enabled us to achieve so much together.” The Breen Family prays that the Irene Frances Breen Foundation will transform the future for those affected by intracranial hemorrhage, offering hope, advancing healing and lighting the path toward recovery.
By Emma Jones